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This is something that needs to be said. I’ve seen this happen so many times before where the woman would start arguments and scream and then when the man finally yells back the woman plays victim. THAT IS ALSO ABUSE. Women can just be as abusive as men. They just get away with it easier. So please be aware and careful. And for everyone who read this, you have the right to defend yourself. You don’t have to let them hit you and you don’t have to let them scream at you. You can protect yourself. Just like the saying goes(for all genders)One hit is all they get.
I don’t know how many boys follow me, but I gotta bet there’s some. I just wanna tell y’all to be careful.
Abusive girls exist and what they’re doing is seen as like “badass tough don’t take no shit” but your girl should not hit you. Ever.
She should not demand for you to hand over your phone to look through.
She should not yell at you and humiliate you either alone or in front of people.
She shouldn’t make you distance yourself from your friends or family.
She shouldn’t scratch you or twist your arms.
She should not call you names.
She shouldn’t tell you ‘she’ll kill herself if you break up’
These are just a few examples of abuse and it’s just seen as okay when girls do it and god knows I’ve fallen victim to it a few times, but you shouldn’t have to.
Never worry about not being in a relationship. If they’re worth it, they won’t hurt you.
No one has the right to hurt you.
Reminder that:
Your parents can still be abusive if they say they love you
Your parents can still be abusive if they buy you stuff
Your parents can still be abusive if they dont hit you
Your parents can still be abusive if they “dont mean to do it”
Your parents can still be abusive if “they have problems too!”
Your parents can still be abusive if they feed you and keep a roof over your head
Your parents can still be abusive if other people have it worse
An abusive parent is an abusive parent. Doing these things doesnt make them gods who you have the worship, it makes them slightly decent human beings (just barely)