System - Blog Posts

NEW HEADER !

(The wings r for personal reasons btw. Please ask me about them if you're curious about why they're there.)

I don't have time to think about myself!

-Tel

Headmate who reminds you to drink more water, despite being dehydrated themself

this popped into my head out of nowhere so i had to create it as an image …… mitosis

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Someone in our system wants to take us to the gym to walk on the treadmill with a book until the book is finished

-c

Alter going to the gym at 9am: Oh yeahhhh we gonna have a killer workout!

Alter who has to do a 6 hour retail shift afterwards: WHY!? WHY DO YOU HATE ME!?

THIS !! I can NOT stress this enough. OSDDID is not something fun to have, sure it has its positives (positive experiences) But it's still a trauma disorder. I'm tired of seeing radqueers on here saying "fuck you anti radqueers !! I'm gonna form a system becuase I can :3 I want dissociative amnesia ! I want horrifying flashbacks >w< and I want to have split headaches so bad they're crippling! >:3" I wish every radqueer, endo, pro endo, endo neutral a very get well. A very get educated. It hurts to see these types of people refuse to understand how NOT FUCKING FUN these DISORDERS are, which mind you are INVOLUNTARY. You cannot pick and choose having OSDDID.

DID is more than just having parts. Its also,

• amnesia

• confusion

• headaches

• nausea

• repeated childhood trauma

• anxiety

• spikes in fear. Anger. Or shame

• mood swings from parts

• body dysphoria

• depersonalization

• derealization

• self puzzlement

• loss of control

• flashbacks

• dizziness

And more.

DID is not "friends in your head" its traumatic, scary and uncomfortable. Its not fun it's a terrifying TRAUMA BASED disorder. And it should never be romanticized - Vesper

Please RB if your blog is a safe space for all non-traumagenic, mixed origin, etc. systems

I get people come to me for places to learn about systems, I need to give them some blogs that won't turn them into a sysmed