If You Think “cishet Invaders Pretending To Be LGBT” Is A Real Problem That Justifies Discouraging

me when trumeds blame The Trenders tm every time cis people do something bigoted

School systems single out neurodivergent students.

Quickie on why people with “weird” genders tend to be mentally ill! I know the question is asked to be rude most of the time, but I felt compelled to make this anyway :3

[ID: The Scooby Doo ghost meme. In the first panel, Fred looks at a ghost, labelled “"aces and aros don’t need to be included in anti-discrimination whose intent is to prohibit discrimination on the basis of orientation"”, and says “Okay gang, let’s see who the ghost really is.“ In the second panel, Fred pulls off the mask and looks at a man labelled “"I think it should be legal to discriminate against someone for being asexual or aromantic"”. End ID]

Think that discriminating against someone for being ace or aro should be illegal? The Inclusive Equality Act Coalition is trying to make sure that’s the case. 

anyway, the idea of “the one” is so innacurate and outdated. there are literally so many people that you could be compatible and share a really strong emotional connection and healthy relationship with. like if you think about it... even in platonic terms, friendship. how many best friends have you had throughout your life? your childhood best friend? high school best friend? college best friend? these were all people you were very in tune with emotionally and shared a meaningful relationship with. did they not understand you? did they not see you for who you were? did they not love you unconditionally? and you did the same. in a world w 8 billion people, one person was not the end all be all. remember that if a relationship dissolved it was for a reason; it wasn’t meant for you. there are plenty of people with whom you can form bonds with. who are willing to meet you where you are, and do what is necessary to earn a place in your life through consistent effort and actions. the “one” doesn’t exist, and they’re not out there for you to find.

If you’re thinking about calling a trans woman “male” or a trans man “female”:

Don’t

Don’t

Don’t

Don’t

Don’t

Don’t

Don’t

Don’t

or identifying as only nonbinary. for example, i'm genderfluid which is under the enby umbrella yet many think nonbinary is a singular gender and not a spectrum/umbrella.

a lot of y’all out here making posts about how much you support enbies but will invalidate them if they don’t fit the mold.

the mold is white, naturally androgynous, non aligned, short hair, really skinny, afab, actively transitioning, identifing as trans, binding, pansexual or asexual, listening to indie or alt music, has a goblincore aesthetic, and maybe dyed hair.

let me clarify, if you fit this mold as a nonbinary person, you’re valid and you’re nonbinary. i’m not saying you aren’t.

i’m just saying if this is the ONLY type of nonbinary person you support, you’re enbyphobic.

nonbinary people can be poc, lesbian, gay, bi, amab, binary aligned, not transistioning, not identifying as trans, fat, and overall not fit your “ùwú enby space babey” aesthetic.

let nonbinary people exist the way they do.

stop treating our identities like things to be discussed or debated NO MATTER WHAT SIDE YOURE ON. nonbinary people are nonbinary and are valid, end of convo. our validity was NEVER up for debate. periodt.

if you take away one thing from this, let it be to LISTEN TO NONBINARY PPL.

- sincerely, a very pissed black autistic bisexual nonbinary person who uses neogenders and has she/her/he/him/cat/cats/nya/nyas pronouns

terfs/gender critical people and transmeds/truscum, don’t even BREATHE near this post.

nonbinary people can add on but binary trans ppl and cis people should only spread.

valid as fuck ★

-a genderfluid aroace

Reblog if you think Pansexuals are valid

I just…want to see something

2020 just blew it out of porportion. Hey 2020 don’t disappoint us.

2020: Global Pandemic, Economic Depression, and A Lot of Quartines.

:3

nonbinary people who change their name are great!

nonbinary people who go by the name given to them at birth are amazing!

nonbinary people with gender neutral names are marvelous!

nonbinary people with traditionally masc/fem names are excellent!

nonbinary people with object names are cool!

💛🤍💜🖤 all the names nonbinary people go by are good and valid!! 💛🤍💜🖤