Your honeymoon was not working out quite the way you had expected. But at least you will be knowing that your new wife is having a wonderful time and having lots of incredible sex.
You knew that your wife was really hoping she would be selected again -- but it was far from certain, because there were several other very pretty young women at her office who were hoping they would be selected this time. So even though you know it will mean a lot of lonely nights for you -- and no sex at all while she was being used by her boss -- you're very happy that she is getting what she desired. And the two of you had been talking about having a second child -- but you had hoped you might get to be the one to impregnate her this time, but it seems that is very unlikely to be the case.
"What? Will I have sex with him? Well -- I really think he does expect that since we'll be sharing one hotel room the whole time -- and it's probably something he really needs now, but I promise I'll ask him to use protection. So like I said -- there's no reason for you to be so jealous about it."
Even though your wife seems to think that all she's doing is being a good friend to him, you still can't help feeling jealous and hurt, but there really isn't anything you can do without seeming to be a real jerk about it. It's just that you had always thought that you would be the one who would take her to Hawaii some day, and that it would be a really romantic place for the two of you to visit together. And now you have the pain of thinking about it being a romantic vacation for her -- but without you.