Responding / Reacting To The 3D

this is the funniest shit i’ve seen today LMAO😭

So You Reacted, Now What?

You find yourself in a position where you reacted to the 3D or you spiralled etc, now what? Well it is a lot simpler than it seems. You pick yourself up and keep going. (In some cases you may find it important to take a step back and reduce any overexertion you were doing in regard to manifestation that may have been emotionally exhausting you.)

Imagine you are taking part in a marathon, you fall over - oh no! Does this mean you’ve failed? no. You aren’t eliminated. You don’t just give up. You pick yourself up, take a deep breath, acknowledge what happened and simply move on. The fact you fell over earlier no longer matters to you now, it is not going to cause the marathon to disappear or you to fall over again. You don’t have to overthink the fall or beat yourself up over the fact you fell, you simply forgive yourself, take a deep breath and keep going till you reach your goal.

You’re in control, all is well. Nothing can stop you getting your manifestation except you deciding you either 1. don’t want it or 2. can’t get it. So try not to allow anything to make you feel like anyone/anything can stop it. If you react or spiral or waiver, it’s okay carry on, but try not to make a habit out of it yk?

Love,

Saph

Feeling vs Repetition in Manifestation

Hi lovelies!

This is just a really quick post regarding two types of manifesting because some LOAss blogs/ coaches seem to argue about it.

Simply put, both work.

Feeling

Feeling in manifestation is something that was heavily promoted by neville. Whether via visualisation, scripting or whatever else, the idea is to really feel like the person who has their desire. To feel fulfilled, worthy and like you have your desire and no amount of 3D can change that. Feeling this (nearly) impenetrable way that your desire is yours helps rewire your neural pathways as your brain cannot tell the difference between whether you feel fulfilled from your desire in your imagination or your 3D. It just knows you have it. In turn the 3D will reflect you having it.

Feeling often uses forms of repetition from the methods used, such as in SATS, and with looping imagined scenarios, or repeating the same sentiment back to yourself when scripting. You may even just plain repeat affirmations back to yourself as a way to feel like the version of yourself who has your desires.

Repetition

Saturating your mind with the same statement/ idea over and over again will also rewire your neural pathways. Repetition is done usually with affirmations - and since i am talking strictly repetition and not feeling let’s say robotic affirming. By feeding yourself the same sentiment over and over it will also become fact. This also follows the idea in LoAss that where your focus lies will manifest. E.g. if you focus on your SP having a third party and not wanting you, their relationship will flourish // you will be forgotten. On the other hand if you focus on how much your SP loves being in a relationship with you, you will have a wonderful happy relationship.

if you want good content surrounding repetition look up sammy ingram on youtube. She also has lots of success stories from herself and her communities if you want motivation :).

Repetition may also make use of feelings when faced with unfavourable 3D as you must continue to be the person that has your desire all the time, not just when actively affirming.

As explained, BOTH WORK! In fact both have worked for me! Do not allow the preferences of an LoAss content creator to make you believe a certain form of manifestation does not work for you. It is simply preference!

<3

Saph

i LOVE Sonja Frink so much, she really does no bullshit teaching <3

If you are struggling with manifestation and how it truly works, go watch this video. This is a GAME CHANGER!

She puts emphasis on this, what ever you truly believe to be true is completely true no matter what (that is with every single thoughts ever).

Here are many commus example:

Subliminals truly works if you believe that it works and vice versa

Tarot card reading truly work and can even take power over you if you believe it can take power over. But if you believe that it doesn’t do shit then it doesn’t do shit.

If you don’t have it you’ll have better! Babe please. This is not fucking true if you want this SP then believe that no matter fucking what, you have him. Please acknowledge that whenever you say things like that it becomes true.

She is also saying that your emotion (energy in motion) is a manifestation, NOT THE CAUSE OF A MANIFESTATION. This one really opened my eyes so when you feel a certain type of way, I say to myself this feeling/ emotion is a manifestation from a thought that I was thinking in the past, so you can dismiss because I chose to believe something that I want to believe. And POUFFF that negative feeling gets the fuck away.

Your inner dialogue same things as your thoughts are the ONE AND ONLY REASON WHY YOU ARE WHERE YOU ARE.

LET ME REPEAT YOUR THOUGHTS, YOU INNER DIALOGUES ARE THE ONE AND ONLY REASON WHY YOU ARE WHERE YOU ARE!!!!!

Stop listening to others that are not telling you this main belief please.

Anyways love each one of you take care beautiful princesses🎀

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Hi! I’m Sonja, and I help people take their power back! I love talking about all things manifestation/Law of Assumption and sharing the info

“I do not argue the point,

I do not try to figure out how it will happen,

which means are needed,

I do not wonder if it’s possible,

I do not wonder when or feel fear whether or not it will work,

I remove past and future and remove grudges.

I just experience being.”

-Edward Art

(source)

I've seen ppl say that it's okay to know that your 3d will conform soon. But ppl always say to affirm that the 3d has conformed INSTANTLY (like, the SECOND you affirmed/decided to have something) because doing the former could unknowingly put you in a state of WAITING for your 3d to conform, & constantly pushing your manifestation into the future. BUT THEN AGAIN, ppl will say that "the 3d always gives you results INSTANTLY, BUT that the results aren't visible to our eyes yet because they're "still within the realm of the unseen" (which i think just means imagination/the 4d, the thoughts of other ppl, etc).

So my question is: WHICH IS IT THEN?

Because I KNOW, instant manifestation is possible, 'cause you can materialize $1billion in your bank account or revise a drastic appearance change in seconds, but I just don't understand what exactly these ppl mean by "you're results are always instant. you just can't see them in your 3d right now".

(idk, maybe I need to stop reading just EVERY & ALL blogs 'cause even though most of the info is the same, maybe I'm just getting confused by how differently everyone explains it😭)

hi lovely!

I was thinking of making a post like this so i am very glad you asked :)

firstly let’s talk about the instantaneous aspect:

The difference is internally vs externally. Internally is instantaneous, and externally (3d) can be instantaneous but people tend to be too busy looking for the desire and thereby internalising not having it. Thus 3D also will reflect not having it. The 3D will instantly start bringing it you though.

If you order a package from (some place far away) and cannot see the package in your hands rn you don’t start saying ‘it isn’t mine’, you know it is yours and on its way to you. Whether you focus on it being yours, or it being on the way to you doesn’t matter, both ways you know it is yours.

Essentially as soon as you decide you have your desire, or start affirming for it, you have your desire internally. Since the 3D is a reflection of your internal world, your dominant thoughts / assumptions, it instantly starts to manifest physically, bringing your desire - understand that your desire can come about in all kinds of ways (the unfolding) . Mountains will move if they need to for. Honestly as soon as you internalise the decision that you manifest instantly - you can. But if the way you ‘try’ to manifest instantly is by saying your affirmation then looking everywhere in your 3D for it, you aren’t understanding manifestation. it’ll come to you - literally in seconds - but looking for it is what is gonna make it not manifest, because looking for it is just reaffirming the dominant thought / state or identity of you not having it. Like seriously just let it come to you, it will.

do not allow the 3d to tell you what you can and cannot have, since it is only a mirror of you.

Now this is what feeds into the idea of ‘waiting reaffirming you don’t have it’

Yes, if you sit around waiting, staring at your phone for the text from your sp and only thinking about how it isn’t there - you are reaffirming you don’t have it. I personally do not believe this is the same thing as using “i will receive” (or just future tense affirmations) as long as you claim you have it internally, or you are saturating your mind with the knowing it is becoming yours. (this really depends on if you’re more of a states / feeler person or robotic affirmations person) at the end of the day in both scenarios the only thing preventing you from not manifesting the outcome you want (you receiving your desire) is telling yourself it’s not / never will be yours. Whether that is because you don’t see it right now or because of how you value(d) yourself in relation to your desire whatever.

So quick answer: I will be/have vs i am/have both work unless you’re gonna overcomplicate it in your mind and say they don’t. I think there are benefits to saying *desire* manifested instantly etc as your affirmation because it’ll saturate your brain with the idea that the 3D conforms instantly which is good :)

This being said, don’t demonize coaches who give example affirmations etc following a certain method/ affirmation type. Coaches / loass content creators typically are only gonna give you advice based on what worked for them, and usually if they find something that works they’ll stick with it yk, so their advice is biased to their success. And that is FINE but other methods / affirmations still work :)

Since LoAss is so broad and works for people in so many different ways (states, affirmations, visualisation, scripting) some loa coaches / cc are going to give cookie cutter routines etc to follow based on their success. As a result you may find clashing advice to follow when it gets down to specifics of different coaches’ methods. This does NOT mean that one does work and one doesn’t, they BOTH work. Just take a step back and bring it back to the basics. Avoid overconsumption.

What works?

- saturating your mind either with a state of being/ identity or affirmations

- Knowing you validate the 3D, it does not validate you

What is the only must?

- Persistance

So to summarise + a bit more

internal manifestation is instant, 3D will reflect that unless you start waivering / returning to previous dominant thought / state of being / identity that you don’t have your desire. As soon as you make the decision the you have your desire, 3D reality is working on bringing it to you so that it can reflect you correctly, until your desire is in your hands you do NOT take anything in the 3D as a sign of you not having it.

You don’t have to affirm that your desire manifests instantly - just saying you have it or are getting it doesn’t push it away - but it certainly won’t hurt :)

Try not to get too caught up on the specifics on how 10 different coaches manifest, most people don’t follow the exact same way of doing it, the thing that remains the same is some type of internal saturation. Manifestation is broad and there are so many methods to help you saturate your mind so just cause person A likes affirming “i love my blue porsche”, person B likes affirming “i am receiving a blue porsche 911 cayenne” and person C hates affirming but enjoys visualising themselves driving the porsche and embodying the feeling of having it, doesn’t mean any of them are doing it wrong, it just means they all found what works for them.

Not to sound like every manifestation blog ever but there comes a time when it’s time to stop reading/overconsuming and to start just applying. The world is your oyster as long as you allow yourself to believe it to be true.

I hope this helped answer your question and if it didn’t (embarrassing) please feel free to message me / clarify in a new ask and i will correct myself haha.

Love,

Saph

hi loves, i haven’t been super active lately but here are some things i have manifested so far in 2024:

- the sony headphones (mentioned in another post) (for free)

- my ping to stop spiking in my videogames

- fiction books to get me out of a reading slump (for free)

- new cool friends outside my friend group

- an old SP to contact me (have him blocked everywhere so it was amusing to see him find a way to contact me)

- new clothes that my mom paid for

- going back to uni asap (4 days) after an extreme emergency

- a brand new laptop (for free)

- getting 50 euros off of my groceries (this was really fun)

- also specifically the iced coffee sachets i wanted being on sale

- exceptional uni work/performance (with low effort)

- my friend buying me cookies for no reason

- sanrio stuff becoming available in my city

- extra monthly income that i don’t have to work for, literally just given to me

- my neighbour’s cat being playful with me (used to always ignore me LITERALLY WOULD AVOID EYE CONTACT W ME)

- my own cat becoming more social & wanting affection

- moving to a bigger room in my apartment & my roommates moving out

- double bed both in my apartment and at my parents house

and so on…

i have highlighted some of the ones i think people might be most interested in.

You deserve this too bubba.

Love,

Saph

embody the version of yourself who already has your desire - aka assume the state of wish fulfilled

for example with an sp if you find yourself asking something like “why haven’t they messaged me yet”, simply remind yourself “oh well they’re my partner so i am not worried” and simply go upon your day. If you feel like you are going to spiral, take a moment to focus on your breathing, and remind yourself of WHO you are.

rewire those dominant thoughts and reactions. The 3D is never final babes.

love you guys <3

mwah

you can't want something you already have.

think about it. if you already had everything you ever wanted, would you still be thinking about "how" or "when" you're gonna get it? or worse, "am i going to get it?" it doesn't make sense at all.

that's also why so many loa bloggers have been repeatedly saying that if you are in the state of the wish fulfilled, you would literally NOT be concerned about the 3d or anything else. you focus entirely ONLY on your imagination and fulfil yourself there. regardless of what you see in the 3d, you won't be fazed at all because you KNOW that imagination is the only reality, so the 3d has to INEVITABLY morph and reshuffle to reflect your imagination.

if you already have your desires, you WOULDN'T be:

asking if you're gonna get it

asking where is it

asking when and how you're gonna get it

constantly dwelling upon the LACK of your desires

accepting the 3d as final

I genuinely feel like this is one of the most important posts i have made so far that will really help to understand manifestation and not allow the 3D to obstruct you :P

:3 this + my circumstances are irrelevant (much shorter) post really go hand in hand for this, so do check them out - i could care less about traction etc i just want to help people not overcomplicate the law of assumption :)

The 3D is NEUTRAL

Hi lovelies,

I have talked a lot about reacting to the 3D but not this pivotal point! SO if you read this before my other 3D/ Circumstances related posts - good.

What does the 3D being Neutral mean?

The 3D means quite literally nothing. No, not just in the “ignore unwanted circumstances way”, the 3D itself and everything that happens in it is entirely ‘neutral’ it has no actual consequence on or causes from itself (the 3D). Because of this, anything that happens in the 3D only matters if you give value to it - not by interacting with it, but with what meanings you attach to events, people, ‘circumstances’ or whatever else in your inner world. Everything that happens in the 3D is inherently neutral, and what comes out of it is entirely dependent on how you perceive the event and if/how you continue to think about it.

After all it is the law of assumption, your assumptions - dominant thoughts are reflected into the 3D.

This is why it is easier than you might think to change the 3D - by for example ignoring a circumstance - and where the idea of “where your focus lies will manifest” comes from.

How is the 3D neutral if it stems from our Dominant Thoughts?

Yes, the 3D is a reflection of your dominant thoughts - assumptions - however it is only a reflection and an experience. The 3D’s position as a reflection is where its neutrality comes from: if you look in the mirror and don’t like your hair, you don’t blame the reflection, you change self.

Your reflection can not do anything to you to change it - thus it is neutral. The only way you create changes in your reflection is by changing self , perhaps because the reflection makes you feel a certain way, however, as creator you can decide how you let the reflection impact you.

(this is like the simplest way i can describe it)

Anything that happens in the 3D has no impact until you give it meaning. The reason most actions and events in the 3D continue or unfold in certain ways , is because you unconsciously and automatically assign meaning to things you perceive and experience. This is normal, humans are habitual creatures that act and react based on stimuli and repetition. Additionally if you live by assumptions like “everything happens for a reason” you will take 3D events much more seriously, so the 3D will not feel neutral - but it is.

When you take the time to consciously decide if an event, person or circumstance aligns with you as the version of yourself who has your desire, you are able to remove the meaning / impact or, conversely ,emphasize the meaning of it: This is when you’ll typically see the true neutrality of the 3D, because you really do get to pick and choose what stays and goes with no consequences.

Even if the 3D has, let’s say, an ongoing ‘plot’ where your SP doesn’t want a relationship with you, this literally can change in an instant as soon as you change your dominant thoughts.

The 3D is a reflection, it can not and will not argue facts and logic with you to keep a circumstance ongoing. If you look in the mirror and then put on a hat, your reflection is not going to refuse to put on a hat. like it does not have that power! The only way you give the 3d that power is by looking in the mirror and going “oh i don’t have a hat :(“ and then not putting on a hat.

Validating the 3D by letting it impact you is just validating pre-existing dominant thoughts, if they don’t serve you, don’t let them thrive!

The irrelevance of taking action

You can not change your reflection by breaking your mirror

I believe that is a quote from Neville and it explains this principle quite well. Since the 3D is a reflection of your dominant thoughts, you can only really change it with your dominant thoughts again (to change your reflection you do not do anything to the mirror you see it through, you change self). As such nothing you see in the reflection matters, only how you choose to perceive it and there from react to it (internally) does.

This is the choice between: “i don’t have a hat” versus going to put on a hat - just to clarify the hat is a metaphor for changes to your assumptions lol.

Don’t get me wrong, if you have a strong ass - i am talking netherite armour level - self concept, you likely can do whatever you want in the 3D and get what you want - but that also starts from within, with that self concept and denying all the times you took action in the 3D and didn’t get what you wanted. I also don’t like meddling with unfavourable 3D because i don’t want to give the circumstances my validation, time and attention.

This doesn’t mean that every action in the 3D is what i’m talking about, if i am hungry i eat, i am talking specifically about not needing to take action in regard to your desires.

How do we attach meaning to the 3D?

We do this unconsciously like over 95% of the time (i am using this value to give you an idea, this is not a scientifically confirmed statistic lol.) Most of the time this is done due to previous experiences.

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example:

Someone messages you saying they don’t want to talk.

Since your associations to good relationships means people want to communicate and enjoy each other’s presence, you create the assumption they don’t like you, or will continue not to want to talk to you.

This is someone who you value highly and are desperate to have a good relationship with so you also find it easier to believe that you messed up to make this happen // that they wouldn’t want to talk to you - because of you.

This then develops an assumption of your relationship with that person that they do not like you and as such the relationship diminishes.

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Since we are so used to deriving our understanding of the world from 3D experiences, we automatically apply meaning to new experiences based on old ones. Now just because most of the meaning we have attached to the 3D up until this point has been unconscious using logic and pattern recognition does NOT mean it has to stay that way. Since anything that happens in the 3D is inherently neutral, you don’t have to associate - in your inner world - with anything you don’t like.

Logically being told someone doesn’t want talk to you may follow the neural pathway of “if A (doesn’t want to talk to me) then b (doesn’t value or like me)” of course you can add in all the assumption that that lead up to that like “Event A (does not want to talk to me) was based off of D (assumption that i am not valued or worth being appreciated in relationships) and E (SP is amazing and deserves good relationships)” but like we could keep going like that all day…

However, who gives a fuck about ‘logical thinking’ (nerd ass emoji). On a more serious note, since your inner world (or as neville often put it your imagination) is what the 3D reflects, and you can imagine anything, you have no reason to follow or feed “logical” assumptions that make you feel bad. You do not have to internally validate any 3D circumstance or dominant thought that does not serve you. If you are able to avoid such in the 3D as well, great! if not, it doesn’t matter.

Actions like doing your job to pay your bills while changing your internal beliefs and knowing you have the better fun job internally, does not mean you are validating the belief that you are stuck at the job that sucks, cause 3D action doesn’t matter. Your internal will be reflected and you will be at the fun job in the 3D in no time, as long as you persist and don’t give in.

Only if you actively continue to think that you are stuck there and how much you hate it (and basically deeping your situation) then you are validating those beliefs.

An Important Note about the 3D and Law of Assumption

Just because the 3D is a reflection of your assumptions does not mean it isn’t real. I totally understand why some LoAss followers say it isn’t real, i personally don’t really know how i feel about that but my point is: Don’t just be a dick to people because of the lack of impact the 3D has. If you enjoy being a dick to people you likely have the assumption that they are affected by it - so yes, you are hurting people. REAL PEOPLE.

I get that the law is personal and you can do whatever you want, but if you decide to use any of the Law to hurt people etc honestly just get off of my page, my content isn’t for you. I believe people deserve to know about the law to live good lives, and no ethically good life requires the suffering of others. You have the choice on how to live your life, make the right one.

The 3D Feedback Loop

when we were young we experienced the work around us and those experiences created beliefs which allowed our mind to start manifesting the world around us (in my understanding of the law)

due to this we have created a loop wherein the 3D “feeds” our beliefs, and our beliefs are reflected by the 3D. Only one part of this feedback loop however is law.

Now since we experience the 3d with our senses we take everything that happens as a self reaffirming belief. if you were manifesting 50k you no longer need to affirm for 50k because seeing it in your 3D reaffirms that it is already yours as a fact.

This does not mean that you have to accept anything in the 3D, because your 3D is a reflection of your inner world. You no longer have to take the 3D as evidence or proof of previous belief systems that no longer serve you, because it can change in an instant when you decide and persist in what you want to experience instead.

This is a bit of a wacky post but i was just thinking about this recently.

Love,

Saph