WELCOME !!- Hi Lovelies I'm Ari! My Blog Will Consist Of Random Tips, Self Love/improvement , Academic

❤️Stop caring /listening to rumors❗️

❤️Your hater are your fans ✌🏾

❤️Let them talk, they not doing nothing for you

❤️Do you, and what makes you happy

❤️Keep your moves silent

❤️The best revenge is success, and glowing up

❤️Stay focused on you

☑️Change your mindset (so whatever you set your mind and focus on is what your life and emotions will follow)

☑️Cut off some negative friends (For you to occupy your focus with positivity, negative friends have to go.

☑️Set goals for yourself (One of the most important ways you can forget about the negative things that had happened in the past is by setting goals for your future)

☑️Learn to forgive (if you forgive that person, then you're releasing yourself in from a cage you have locked yourself in)

☑️Stop trying to impress others (For example, if your friend can't understand you in that situation, don't get emotional about it)

｡･:*:･ﾟ★ hellooooo ｡･:*:･ﾟ☆

(asking all my mutuals this)

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questions from Your Annoying Tumblr Mutual !!!

ೃ⁀➷ song that's been on repeat recently?

ೃ⁀➷ any new movies and/or shows you've watched/started/finished?

ೃ⁀➷ thing you did this week that's made you proud of yourself (I, for one, am proud you made it through this week! that's already something!!)

ೃ⁀➷ most recent 'obsession'? (lmfao)

ೃ⁀➷ HAVE YOU EATEN AND DRANK ENOUGH TODAY

kk, that's all (for now) baiiii.ೃ࿐

(p.s. I'm sorry if I'm asking you stuff you might not want to answer)

(p.p.s. it's okay to ignore this !!)

(p.p.p.s. I'm honored to be ur mutual btw)

(p.p.p.p.s. I really am living up to that title)

(p.p.p.p.p.s. yeah okay that's it fr this time)

(p.p.p.p.p.p.s. tehe)

Hiiiiii! 🤗

Beautiful Lies by Rick Ross and Wale

The Aristocats, Cinderella, Cruella, The Princess and the Frog, and The Boondocks (they’re all my comfort shows, the boondocks just help me get a good laugh 🫶🏾)

I finished and turned in my schoolwork/homework on time.

Food, Music, Sleep, Manifesting, The Void State, and LOA

Yepppp

TYSM it’s so comforting to be a mutual w/ you and I appreciate you for asking me these things ✨🫶🏾🤎💞🌸!!!

💖DON'T FIGHT OVER BOYS!

💖ALWAYS LOOK OUT FOR EACH OTHER!

💖DON'T LINK THEIR SECRETS.

💖DON’T DATE THEIR EX UNLESS SHE'S OKAY WITH IT.

💖YOUR GIRLS ALWAYS COME BEFORE YOUR BOYS.

💖BE HONEST WITH EACH OTHER.

💖SUPPORT EACH OTHER ALWAYS.

💖DON'T TALK SHIT ABOUT A PERSON AND THEN GO AND BESTIES WITH THEM.

💖NEVER LIE TO EACH OTHER.

💖DON'T LEAVE ANYBODY BEHIND.

💖ALWAYS BE HONEST WITH YOUR OPINION.

💖DON'T LEAVE ANYONE OUT.

💖NEVER SEE YOUR GIRLS AS A COMPETITION / THREAT.

💕Having a bad attitude doesn't make you a baddie, it's ugly.

💕Being a baddie is a mentality then in becomes a lifestyle.

💕Real baddies are supportive and nice.

💕Don't only take care of yourself externally, but also internally.

💕Build your confidence & self love <3

💕Don't let stereotypes or expectations define you

💕You don't need to follow trends, make your own.

💕Don't put yourself or others down.

💕Always try to look your best!

💕Improve your confidence

💕Keep your vibrations high ✨

💙Always think about number 1: you!

💙Be kind to people. To be a bad bitch don't use that nasty attitude on random people.

💙Use your voice and get your opinions out there

💙Confidence is key!

💙Keep your priorities straight

💙Always keep up with your hygiene

💙Boys shouldn't be your top priority

💙Wear what you feel confident in

💙Keep your grades up

💙One or two main friends are all you need

💙Don't listen to anyone's opinion about you

💙Have a goal in life! but remember it's normal and completely okay to change your goal in life

🧡Stop hating your skin

🧡Stop refreshing your notifications

🧡Stop arguing with your parents

🧡Stop being in a grumpy mood all the time

🧡Stop being ashamed of your type of music

🧡Stop feeling bad about your body

🧡Stop limiting yourself

🧡Stop reading old text messages

🧡Stop trying to be someone you're not

🧡Stop trying to impress others

🧡Stop believing that social media acceptance determines your self worth

🧡Stop checking to see who has viewed your story

🧡Stop deleting posts because they don't have enough likes

🧡Stop talking just listen stop feeling embarrassed about things that make you feel happy

🧡Stop thinking loving yourself means you're stuck up

🧡Stop comparing yourself to heather, youre beautiful

🧡Stop dwelling in the past about what could’ve been

💜 Never talk down on yourself, and dont allow people to talk down on you. Negativity does nothing but tear you self-esteem down. Instead, say positive things about yourself.

💜 Invest in yourself. Self care is so important I'm feeling confident: Feeling down? Put on a face mask and feel like a baddie when you're glowing

💜 Step outside your comort zone sometimes. When you do something you've never thought of doing, you feel good about it (only if it's something positive)

💜 Show confidence in your actions. Speak up, walk with your head held high, look good, everything. Your actions should speak for you

💜 STOP COMPARING YOURSELF. Drowning yourself to uplift someone is a terrible thing for your self-esteem

💚Get rid of toxic people

💚Throw things away you dont need

💚Clean your room

💚Delete people you dont talk to anymore

💚Buy new things

💚Start a writing journal and write about your mood and how u feel

💚Meditate

💚Change your diet

💚Start drinking water

💚Exercise 3x a day /week

💚If u gotta take time of from everyone do it and dont hesitate

💚Learn to love yourself 

💚Don’t be negative towards others

💚Find new hobbies

💚Take care of your skin 

💚Work on your confidence 

💚Remember positivity is key