When people are saying "narcissistic abuse doesn't exist", we're not saying that person didn't abuse you, we're saying that there is no differentiation from a neurotypical/abled abuser and an abuser with a personality disorder.
There are different types of abuse, such as physical abuse, verbal abuse, psychological abuse, emotional abuse, etc. But there is no unique abuse caused by someone with mental illness.
We're saying that abuse isn't specifically caused by mental illness, and to insinuate that is to be ableist. Not all crimes nor abuse are caused by people with mental disorders. It's an ableist myth that mentally ill people are evil or dangerous just because they're mentally ill or neurodivergent.
You could be abused by anyone, with any type of abuse. But narcissistic, bpd, or otherwise abuse is NOT a type of abuse. Stop being ableist. Stop pushing narratives that people with these disorders and disabilities are evil just because they have them.
Be real for one second and don't assume strangers are evil because they're mentally ill. Sure, you got abused by one. But plenty of us have been abused by people who have traits that make them systemically oppressed. Like abused by women, abused by people of color, abused by queer people, etc. But we don't say their abusive traits are caused by that. They're abusive because they're a bad person, not because they're a minority.
reblog to tell your local narcissist that they’re the best ever
npd + psychosis culture is believing you play a pivotal role in reality that no one can know about for their safety but also REALLY wanting appreciated for it.
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guys the temptation to tag my npd posts as narc abuse just to irritate the narc abuse truthers is eating me alive. it would be so incredibly funny to me. i know i could handle the hate. the only reason i am not doing it is because i have a vague sense that this is one of those things that i THINK would be funny but may actually be Morally Wrong.
is it Morally Wrong to tag all my npd posts as narc abuse for the sheer purpose of trolling narc abuse truthers. this is a genuine question someone please give me an answer
i am human and i am flawed because of it but there is an innate capability to connect in the human brain and i think maybe it's okay to start out by connecting to yourself however that may look
NPD is never being good enough.
NPD is being isolated from everybody else.
NPD is knowing you will never form connections to people like egotypicals do.
NPD is never being authentic.
NPD is feeling empty inside.
NPD is constant paranoia and the sickening feeling of thinking everyone is going to sabotage you.
NPD is constant distrust.
NPD is self hatred.
NPD is feeling sick when others succeed.
NPD is knowing love will never be enough for you, you need obsession, devotion, to be the most important person, to be the air they breathe, to be worshipped but knowing they will probably never be that to you.
NPD is needing control.
NPD is constantly feeling underestimated and belittled.
NPD is having to be admired by everyone.
NPD is the want to be feared and respected.
NPD is never feeling satisfied.
NPD is competing with socially assertive people and getting unbearably angry at them for purposefully stealing your spotlight.
NPD is nobody understanding your struggles irl.
Fuck the stigma around NPD.
I love narcissists.
I want narcissists to succeed in life.
I want narcissists to find happiness.
I want narcissists to have healthy and effective support systems.
I want narcissists to be able to say they have their disorder, and it be treated the same way as someone saying they have autism or ADHD.
I want narcissists to take care of themselves.
Because that's what narcissists deserve.
Because narcissists are people.
my dash is like "shitpost" "important sociopolitical event" "fandom fuckery" "queer discourse" "vague hornyposting" "advice for adulthood" "calls for a boycott of companies for xyz reasons" "series of gifs of a show i don't watch" "cute cat" and i think that's how this hellsite was meant to be consumed
"Stop saying 15 year olds with weird interests are cringe, they're 15" this is true however you should also stop saying adults with weird interests are cringe because who gives a shit
i think my most narcissistic trait is the fact that i would be uncomfortable being friend with another person with NPD because i have to be The One And Only Narcissist™️
Crow | 29 | System | Diagnosed BPD | Questioning NPD | Physically Disabled
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